it's been a long time since i've blog..

many things are happening around me.. events are coming up one by one.. work load is getting more and more as the days passed.. for the preparation of the event of course..

lucky thing i have meimei and agnes to help me with it if not i'll be super stress... but of course lorraine is also helping and advising us.. well.. as a team we can make anything and everything possible..

I'm hoping the days will pass faster so the event can be over and we can consentrate on our corporate secretairal work and also have a jolly good time until next year july comes.. well it goes round and round...

well... as for my post on face book, it is a heart breaking moment. sweetie's dad was admitted to hospital on 15th of November 2009. it all happen on the same day morning when ben's dad was having an asthma atttack and he had breathing difficulties... ben had brought him to see their family doctor and was ok from then, until 330pm that day.. his sister suddendly shouted for us.. ben rushed to the room to see what happened. His dad's nose was bleeding, he ask what happened,, his dad said he was giddy and had knock his nose on the wall.. he was breathing difficultly as that time.. sweetie call for ambulance and it came about 5-10mins later.. his dad was admittied since then. From the point he was on the was to hospital until he was rolled in to the A&E he was consious, after a 45mins wait, the doctor came out, we thought he could be discharged, but no bad news was received. The doctor said he had a minor heart attack and it actually caused his heart to stop beating for 20 seconds.. the doctor said they had to immediatly do a minor operation which call in short, ballooning.. to remove the blockage at his heart..

we waited for another 1 hour plus till we could see him.. when we could see him, he was attached to so many pipes.. ben and I was lost... ben's sis, brother, mum and brother's gf cried... I cired after leaving the ward. Last week was really a hectic week... and also a very crutial week... his heart was not beating again for 30 secs for 2 days... the doctor said is he had too many heart attacks,, he may loose his memory or become vegetable when he wakes up.. these is not what we want of course..

it's so heart aching to see a person who is consious when he was admitted and not seeing him for 4 hours and the next you see in front of you is him lying there with so many pipes attached...

Saturday was some good news day... his dad opended his eyes when ben's sister called him, "Pa"
they was shocked and frighten, his legs was shaking and his head was moving.. we ask the doctor was happend and he said they inserted little Ma Zhui Yao.. but it is good to see his dad eyes opened, that day we were all there until 1030pm... but his brother and gf stayed on. i finally saw smiles on his sister and brother's face..

Ben's sibliings and me are praying since the day his dad was admitted.. we really hope to see mirical happend and he could be walking out of the hospital soon..

i'm on mc today.. coughing since last friday, but today it got worse.. my throat was so painful when i got up... i was preparing to go work.. but i had slight fever after i bathe.. my mum ask me to stay home rest... and take mc.. i changed back and went back to slp... going to see doctor later at 2pm.. monday mornings, clinics are always packed..

life is changing around ben and me.. less shopping, less movies, but it is okay.. his dad needs them most at this point... I'll stay strong to stand by them..

yesterday, i bought herbal tea for them.. i think i'll learn how to cook soup for them.. =)